Gift Ideas for Your 20th Wedding Anniversary

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Cheers to twenty years of marriage! This milestone marks two decades of love and dedication that is truly remarkable. Celebrate this anniversary with a gift that symbolizes the enduring and timeless connection shared between you and your spouse. Take a moment to reminisce about the years of love and dedication that has led you to this special day while you look ahead to twenty more years of joy and blissful fulfillment.

If you’re shopping for your parents or a couple of close friends who have a well-appointed home, then you may feel like the traditional and modern gift themes are not the best fit for gift inspiration. If that’s the case, we recommend giving a personalized gift for couples.

20th Anniversary Gifts

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If you’re here it’s probably because you want to know more about the gift themes for the twentieth wedding anniversary. What are they and what do they symbolize? The practice of giving specific anniversary gifts has a long history and is an excellent way to provide direction to the gifts you give throughout your marriage. Read on to discover the traditional, modern, gemstone and flower gift themes for the twentieth anniversary.

What Is the Traditional 20th Anniversary Gift?

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The traditional twentieth anniversary gift is china which symbolizes the combination of grace and durability necessary for a long-lasting marriage. While delicate, china is much more durable than it looks and, like your relationship, if you treat it with care it can last a lifetime.

You may already have a set of fine china, in which case you can choose to gift new matching or complimentary serving pieces. Or maybe now is the time for a new set of fine china and an opportunity to pick a pattern that reminds you of your years together or fits your home decor. Either way, china is a decadent gift that will be cherished for the next twenty years.

Featured China Anniversary Gifts

Wedgwood Paeonia Blush Plate 8.3\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\" Set of 4
Set of 4 Wedgwood Paeonia Blush Plates
  • Made from fine bone china
  • Plates measure 8.5″
  • Presented in a signature Wedgwood gift box
$143.99 USD

The Paeonia Blush Collection by Wedgwood is an eclectic mix of teaware pieces that feature a beautiful peony pattern. Peonies are believed to represent romance and good fortune and are symbolic of a happy and prosperous marriage. This set of plates is a perfect gift for anyone that enjoys serving sweet or savory treats or hosting an afternoon tea.

Vera Wang Wedgwood Vera Lace Five-Piece Place Setting
Vera Wang Place Setting
  • 5-piece place setting includes dinner plate, salad/dessert plate, bread plate, teacup, and saucer
  • From the Vera Lace Collection by Wedgwood
  • Gift boxed with care instructions
$175.01 USD

Inspired by renowned New York designer Vera Wang’s bridal designs, the Vera Lace Collection for Wedgwood features delicate lacework details in platinum, combining the traditional and modern twentieth anniversary gift themes. This beautiful set of fine china dinnerware includes every piece necessary for a full dinner service at an elegant dining table.

Sweese 6 Ounce Cappuccino Cups with Saucers, Porcelain Double Espresso Cups Set of 6 - Hot Assorted Colors (403.002)
Cappuccino Cups with Saucers
  • Includes six sets of cups & saucers
  • In six assorted colors
  • Made from premium porcelain
$35.99 USD

With thick, durable construction and a 6 oz capacity, these cappuccino cups are perfect for enjoying a hot cup of coffee or espresso beverage. Plus, they are made with a professional grade lead-free porcelain that is dishwasher, microwave, freezer, and even oven safe.

More Traditional 20th Anniversary Gift Ideas

When choosing a china gift, consider if you want to give dinnerware that will be used on a daily basis or if it will be reserved for entertaining or special occasions. Luckily, there is a wide range of china products available, so finding a gift that best fits your loved one’s needs and style should be relatively easy.

And if you’re worried about confusing china with more casual dinnerware, don’t fret! Every item we’ve selected for this year is made from one of the three types of china: bone china, fine china or porcelain.

What Is the Modern 20th Anniversary Gift?

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Platinum is the modern twentieth anniversary gift. As one of the strongest and most enduring metals, platinum signifies the highest level of excellence. A symbol of strength, endurance and greatness, a gift made from platinum represents the most admirable characteristics of a twenty year marriage.

Featured Platinum Anniversary Gifts

Mikasa Cameo Platinum 40-Piece Dinnerware Set, Dinner,Salad,Cereal, Fruit, Service for 8,White
Platinum 40-Piece Dinnerware Set
  • From the Mikasa Cameo Platinum collection
  • Set includes eight (8) each: dinner plate, salad plate, soup bowl, tea cup and saucer
$282.33 USD

The Cameo Platinum collection features high quality porcelain with an elegant platinum trim that makes dining a luxurious experience. This gift idea combines the traditional and modern gift themes for the twentieth anniversary in a glamorous dinnerware set perfect for everyday meals and special occasions.

Cross Townsend, Platinum, Ballpoint Pen, with Diamond Pattern Engraving (AT0042-1)
Cross Townsend Platinum Ballpoint Pen
  • Features a diamond pattern engraving with one (1) black medium ballpoint refill in pen
  • Plus boutique-quality gift packaging
$175.00 USD

Manufactured by A. T. Cross Co, a leading manufacturer of high-end writing instruments, this ballpoint pen is made with jewelry-quality craftsmanship. And with the availability of a wide range of refill sizes, colors, and tips—including pencil lead— you can be sure your loved will enjoy using this pen as an everyday reminder of your love.

Glazze Crystal VNG-150-PL Handcrafted Wine Decanter and Stopper, Cut and Interwoven Hand-Painted 24K Platinum Detailing, 13\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\\" Tall, 42 oz Capacity
Glazze Crystal Wine Decanter
  • Crafted from hand-blown, lead-free crystal
  • With 24K platinum details
  • Measures 13” tall
  • Capacity: 42 oz
$96.40 USD

This handcrafted wine decanter with platinum detailing will elevate any home bar and take the wine drinking experience to the next level, especially if you pair it with a favorite bottle of red wine. A premium decanter is a gift that keeps on giving with every glass of wine enhanced by aeration, opening up the aromas and flavours for peak enjoyment.

More Modern 20th Anniversary Gift Ideas

Popular gift ideas that feature platinum include jewelry and accessories, or housewares like home decor or barware with platinum detailing. If possible, custom engraving can add sentimental value to your gift with personalization. You could also consider leaning into a little wordplay for this anniversary gift with a platinum-level membership related to a favorite interest or hobby. Or a platinum album for a favorite band could be a good fit for your spouse, especially if pair it with a record player.

What Is the 20th Anniversary Gemstone?

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Emerald is the twentieth anniversary gemstone. The natural green color of emeralds commonly symbolizes vitality and verdant new beginnings, but they are also believed to represent eternal love and the strong connection between spouses. Compared to rubies, the gemstone of passionate love, emeralds are known as the gemstone of deep, mature love.

Emerald Jewelry Anniversary Gifts

While jewelry is always an excellent anniversary gift, you can also surprise and delight your spouse with a gift of emerald jewelry given on any special occasion during your twentieth year of marriage.

What Is the 20th Anniversary Flower?

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Twentieth anniversary flower is aster, which gets its name from the Greek word astron, meaning star. With their vivid colors and multitude of petals, asters represent deep connections, commitment, and loyalty. Red asters specifically symbolize undying devotion, and pink asters represent sensitive love, making either a good choice to include in an anniversary bouquet. 

If asters are unavailable or out of season, then a bouquet of your spouse’s favorite flowers or red roses is sure to be appreciated.

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