Gift Ideas for Your 30th Wedding Anniversary

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Cheers to thirty years of marriage! This milestone anniversary represents three decades filled with love and unwavering commitment. Commemorate this special occasion with a gift that captures the enduring and timeless bond you and your partner share. Take a moment to reflect on the years of love and dedication that have brought you to this remarkable day, while you look to the years of joy and blissful fulfillment that lie ahead.

This year’s traditional and modern gift themes skew heavily towards jewelry which may not be the best fit for gift inspiration if you’re shopping for your parents or a couple of close friends. If that’s the case, we recommend giving a personalized gift for couples.

30th Anniversary Gifts

Traditional Gift


Modern Gift


Gemstone Gift


Flower Gift


If you’re here it’s probably because you want to know more about the gift themes for the thirtieth wedding anniversary. What are they and what do they symbolize? The practice of giving specific anniversary gifts has a long history and is an excellent way to provide direction to the gifts you give throughout your marriage. Read on to discover the traditional, modern, gemstone and flower gift themes for the thirtieth anniversary.

What Is the Traditional 30th Anniversary Gift?

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Pearl gifts are traditional for the thirtieth anniversary. The only gemstone that is not technically a stone, pearls are composed of layers of nacre often formed around a grain of sand over the course of months or years. Due to this natural process, every pearl is unique and the layers of concentric circles that form a pearl over time symbolize wisdom gained through experience and the ability to overcome seeming hardships to grow stronger and more beautiful.

Featured Pearl Anniversary Gifts

Love's Embrace Women's Pearl & Diamond Necklace | Pearl Pendant Jewelry | Woman's Necklaces | Genuine Diamonds | Gifts for Her | #1638-0016
Pearl & Diamond Pendant Necklace
  • Features a magnificent 8 mm freshwater pearl embraced by gleaming 14K gold plated ribbons
  • With six accent diamonds and 18″ 14K gold plated chain
  • Pendant measures is 3/4″ in length
$108.90 USD

Combine the traditional and modern thirtieth anniversary gift themes with a this “Love’s Embrace” pendant necklace. Featuring a stunning freshwater pearl surrounded by gold-plated ribbons and genuine diamonds, it is elegant enough to match classy evening wear and can also be paired with casual, everyday staples to add a flair of sophisticated allure.

Handmade mother of pearl ballpen from Vietnam- ideal gift for Men/Women at work (blue)
Handmade Ballpoint Pen
  • Handcrafted with long panels of natural abalone manually polished for a smooth finish
  • With solid brass fittings and shiny chrome finish
  • Refill is standard international size
  • Gift box included
$67.99 USD

The natural vein and color variation of abalone adds to the beauty and one-of-a-kind nature of this handmade pen. Crafted to be a comfortable size with good weight, your spouse will be regularly reminded of your love with each note or letter they write.

VIKI LYNN Freshwater Cultured Pearl Necklace Set Includes Stunning Bracelet and Stud Earrings Jewelry for Women
Cultured Pearl Jewelry Set
  • Set includes 18″ necklace, 7.5-8″ bracelet and a pair of 10-10.5mm stud earrings
  • Featuring hand-picked freshwater cultured pearls with 18K gold plated pea clasps
  • Gift box included
$124.99 USD

This classic off-round pearl jewelry set features quality freshwater pearls with beautiful luster and color. The necklace and bracelet can be connected to create a longer necklace, and the set arrives in a elegant box that is perfect for gifting.

More Traditional 30th Anniversary Gift Ideas

Before pearl culturing techniques were developed, natural pearls were rare and became a symbol of luck and prosperity. Pearls are also strongly associated with moon due to their shape, color, and connection to water. A gift of pearls symbolizes the strength and beauty of your one-of-a-kind union. Gifts inlaid with mother of pearl are also a great option for this anniversary.

What Is the Modern 30th Anniversary Gift?

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The modern thirtieth anniversary gift is diamond. The word diamond comes from the ancient Greek word adamas, meaning invincible. Made from pure carbon and known to be the hardest mineral in existence, diamonds represent strength, endurance, and the unbreakable bond of pure love at the core of your marriage.

Featured Diamond Anniversary Gifts

14K Gold Fill Herkimer Diamond Stud Earrings, Handmade for women by Lotus Stone Jewelry (gold-filled)
Raw Diamond Stud Earrings
  • Handmade from two gorgeous herkimer diamond crystal stones
  • Set onto posts with encircling bands and friction backs
  • Appx size: 9 x 6 mm
$65.00 USD

Featuring shimmering, light-catching genuine Herkimer Diamonds in their raw, natural state and 14k gold fill details, these dainty earrings add a beautiful sparkle to any outfit and are perfect for daily wear. Raw jewelry features gemstones that are untouched or minimally processed and can be a great fit for women with a bohemian or earthy aesthetic.

Bulova Men's Classic Diamond 6-Hand Chronograph Quartz Watch, Calendar Date, Luminous Markers, 100M Water Resistant, 44mm
Bulova Diamond Accent Watch
  • Six-hand chronograph in matte gray stainless steel
  • Black dial features eight (8) individually hand set diamonds
  • With analog-quartz movement
  • Case size: 44 mm
$299.72 USD

From the Men’s Diamond Collection by Bulova, this classic watch was inspired by vintage designs with a tailored, understated look that’s always in style. Plus, with water resistance to 100 meters and a bracelet band with a double-press fold-over buckle closure, you don’t have to worry about this watch holding up to everyday wear.

AGS Certified 1/2ct TW Journey Diamond Pendant Necklace for Women in 10K White Gold on an 18 inch 10K White Gold Chain
“Journey” Diamond Pendant Necklace
  • Features natural diamonds
  • With a 1/2 ct total weight
  • And a 10K white gold setting
  • Includes 18″ chain
$298.95 USD

The design of this necklace features graduated diamonds set in a curving path that represents your journey of love and that “with every step love grows.” Measuring nearly an inch long, the diamonds in this pendant are American Gem Society certified and conflict free.

More Modern 30th Anniversary Gift Ideas

Mark this marital milestone with a piece of diamond jewelry that is as remarkable as your relationship. You can also consider a gift that takes the iconic shape of faceted diamonds, or lean into a little wordplay for this anniversary with a diamond-level membership related to a favorite interest or hobby.

What Is the 30th Anniversary Gemstone?

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Pearl is also the traditional anniversary theme for this year of marriage. Please refer to the above section for symbolism and gift ideas. While jewelry is always an excellent anniversary gift, you can also surprise and delight your spouse with a gift of pearl jewelry given on any special occasion during your thirtieth year of marriage.

What Is the 30th Anniversary Flower?

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Lilies are the thirtieth anniversary flower and are popular with florists due to their tall stems and large, resplendent blooms. Generally, lilies represent transformation and growth, but red and orange lilies symbolize ardor and renewed love in the context of romantic relationships. Stargazer lilies are specifically associated with passion and romance and an anniversary bouquet of this flower conveys deep feelings of love and desire. 

If lilies are unavailable or out of season, then a bouquet of your spouse’s favorite flowers or red roses is sure to be appreciated.

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